In a world like Secondlife, you can be anyone you want to be, anything that makes your happy.
You are the only one that needs to be happy with your look and your avatar. You dont need to meet anyones expections.
I have been told at times I'm too tall, I'm too skinny, or maybe I should change my hair, or skin or head or, well you get the point. I would like to think that at least of them meant well, and even trying to be helpful with their offers of help.
I love the way my avatar looks, and so does my husband. I love to also play with different looks with my avatar even thought it may not seam like, I have many different heads, skins, make up etc. Its so fun to try new things, and the wonderful world of Secondlife if fully of some many talented designers that are always coming out with new things.
The thing main thing to remeber is your the one that has to be happy with your avatar, so have fun with it, dont be afraid to try new things, but also dont feel you have to if you dont want too. Just be happy being you.
As Always Love & Peace
Chloe Tequila